Personal support
Sometimes you need more than a course. You need someone to look at your specific situation, help you see what is happening, and walk the next few steps with you.
Coaching is for people who want focused, practical help starting and keeping conversations going.
Coaching is not about becoming a different person. It is about learning to show up, say something, and keep going.
We talk for 15 minutes about what is going on and whether coaching is the right fit. No pressure to commit.
Pick a single call, a short package, or an in-person day. We tailor the work to your pace and your life.
Calls are conversational and practical. You bring real situations; we work through them together.
Three ways to work together, depending on how much support you want and how long you need it.
60 minutes · Video call
Best for: A specific situation: an upcoming event, a conversation that keeps going wrong, or a quick reset.
From €120
Ask about this4 weeks · Video calls + async support
Best for: Building a habit and reviewing real conversations as they happen.
From €420
Ask about this8 to 12 weeks · Video calls + async support
Best for: Deeper patterns and sustained practice over time.
From €760
Ask about thisIn person
A half-day or full-day session where we go somewhere conversations actually happen: a café, a park, a small event. You practice in real time, with live feedback and a plan for what to do next.
You share a short note about what feels hardest right now.
We talk through the plan and practice a few low-stakes openers.
We go to a public setting and you start short conversations. I observe and we debrief.
We review what worked, what felt hard, and what to practice next.
From €600
Half-day and full-day options available. Travel outside The Hague may add a fee.
No. The course and coaching work well together, but coaching is open to anyone who wants focused support. If you are working through the course, we can use the modules as a shared framework.
We start with what actually happened in your week: a conversation that went poorly, one you avoided, or a situation coming up. Then we look at what got in the way, practice a different approach, and make a concrete plan for the next few days.
In-person sessions are based in the Netherlands, usually in or near The Hague. We meet in real-world settings such as cafés, parks, or small events so the practice happens where conversations actually take place.
No. Coaching is practical and skills-based. It is not a treatment for mental health conditions. If you are in acute distress, please reach out to a mental health professional first.
If you are unsure, send a message through the form below. We can have a free 15-minute call to talk about what would be most useful.
Tell me a little about what you are looking for. I will respond within two business days.
"The first step is usually the hardest. You do not need to have it all figured out to send a message."